Something that occurred to me recently: I am never in a straight relationship, and I am never in a gay relationship, although my partners may be. I am always in a bisexual relationship, regardless of the gender of the person I’m dating.
Yes! Yes! Yes! One of the many reasons that the accusations sometimes leveled at bisexual people in different gender relationships of deliberately accessing some sort of ‘heterosexual privilege’ is such a fallacy. Bisexual people, by definition, can never be in a ‘Straight Relationship’ becasue We Are Not Straight!
Privilege comes from the closet (or perhaps from some sort of mistake on the part of the viewer) not from self-identification.
(via bisexual-community)
YES. Finally somebody gets it.
All of this. All of it.
^^^^^^^ everything about this, yesss
So, you should definitely go read...an addendum. Crow told me
more stuff i love people who write this yay
This whole post made me flail and almost fall over with the severity of how much I agree with it.
Excellent distinction and explanation.
ugh ALL OF THIS Even if I date a dude or have sex with him, I think I’m going to still consider that sex pretty queer...