A Blog Called Everything

I'm a 20 year old cisgerendered, bisexual, polyamorous, sex-positive female. I'm anti-rape, pro-queer rights and love cats. (General trigger warning).

Only one aspect of sexual violence is about the sex. Sexual violence is more about power and control. A sexual offence occurs because someone wants exert control over someone else and sexual behaviour is used as the medium for this. It is through the act of forcing someone else to do something against her will that a sexual offender gains a sense of power. This gives the offender the opportunity to degrade and humiliate that person through the force of their own will.